Katherine Mez

I had the great pleasure of working on this video with the lovely Jordan Dean. I have been so blessed to share these wonderful moments and memories with the one i love.

Here our journey begins….

Well it’s official.

i have been well received by the people of Barrie, Ontario, Canada.

Last night Jordan Dean and I played an open mic night at this great pub downtown Barrie called…

McReileys.

Last week we attempted this same thing with not such a great experience.

But this week…..

IT WAS AWESOME.

We had such a great time, played a few songs.

the crowd and I even did a little duet on “Come Together”

who doesn’t love a little intoxicated sing a-long.

It was such a great time and I am so thankful for that.

See if we can bring down the house next week.

much love,

-k

Oh Coffee, what would life be without you?

Life is not perfect.

There are many things in life that we have no explination for and no understanding of.

Life just happens.

I believe that it’s not so much the decisions we make that makes us who we are, but rather how we handle those decisions and life changes.
It’s how we cope, and learn and come out of those times in life, those situations that molds our character.

I think that we as humans have this internal desire to control everything around us. To understand every part of life. To know the reason and the process behind eveything.
But here’s the truth….. WE CAN’T.

Life is life and there is no science behind it. What may be good for one person may not be good for another. Because we are all individual.
We are all living different lives.

This is something I believe we all must take understanding in.

I think we easily loose sight in the fact that the root of living is loving.

I like to believe that is why the words are so similar. Live and love. One letter difference.

I believe that when we start accepting life and loving through it, is when we truly start to understand the meaning of living. It’s just silly to think we can control everything in this life. We have to roll with the punches and push through all the crap and accept….

The good with the bad.

We have to love our life.

When we waste our time and emotion on fearing the unknown, the uncontrolable, we arnt living. We are merely exsisting. Living in fear.
We have to know that life is not a plan, it’s not schedule or a routine, it’s not a timeline or a concept.
It’s a journey.

A journey that’s different for everyone.
A story that everyone is the lead role in.

Life isn’t meant to be confined to a routine or a plan.
It’s meant to be an adventure. It’s meant to be a experience and an oppertunity.

It’s meant to be loved.

It’s meant to be lived.

a response to a friend seeking answers:

a friend of mine recently wrote about the confusion of pursuing girls in today’s day and age and how the lack of this girl seemed extremely apparent. So i felt the need to respond…

dear friend, this is a blog i wrote about three years ago, expressing the same concerns as you but in reverse. the truth that you desperately need to know is that these such girls are out there and hopefully after reading what i wrote so long ago, you will be convinced.

“Friday, September 29, 2006

men, be men.

“And not just that romantic kind either. Although I am waiting for that beauty. Not helpless, but wants to be rescued. The damsel in distress, man, woman, myth, true. I will fight for her, climb the highest tower for her, love her, share with her, delight in her, be her warrior, her protector. She will be my crown and I will be hers.” (Manly Man -Bradley Hathaway)

I am convienced that every woman has this man out there waiting for her.Waiting to “fight for her, climb the highet tower for her, love her, share with her, delight in her, be her warrior, her protector…..” God has those men out there waiting for their beauty.

Men, be men. And don’t be afraid to be one either. Be a man of God first. Love God first and formost.

Take Risks.

Take Chances.

Get Uncomfortable.

Be Strong.

Take Charge.

Be the man God has created you to be.

-And in being a woman, i appologize for every woman out there who has belittled you as a man, hurt you as a man, made you insecure as a man. We beg for sensitivity but yet anger when men are too sensitive. We have made things way to hard of you, we have set you back. But here and now, rise up my loves. My brothers, be the man your heart longs for you to be.

It’s okay.

Be chivalris

romantic

caring

strong

adventurous

daring

risky

Be a man.

a manly man.

Please.”

The girls seeking authentic romance are not a commodity but a treasure and a very rare find.

We do exist, and if you are truly the gentleman we are seeking for then continue in your gentlemen like manner of saving and reserving your heart for us to come along, and refrain from giving your heart out to every girl that comes your way, but be patient and believe.

You must know that in the true pursuit of finding love …..is not found in the random hook ups or the constant flirting with the idea of love, but in true devotion in bettering yourself in pursuit and preparation for real true love.

We have to be what we are looking for before we can ever find it.

We are not emotionally designed to be jumping on every boat that comes by, because it looks like it could be the right one, or the right one at the time, but knowing ourselves well enough, being a whole person alone, to know when we are ready to fall in love, and to know that our whole life is capable of loving another and adding that person into our life.

true love should not be something we make time for or fit into our schedules but its the type of thing we turn our lives upside down for, and until you are ready for that….. you are not ready for love.

so please don’t call on the name of love for a bar girl romance or a summer fling, but only for the woman that makes you question your worthiness of her time for you would only be the best you can possibly be for that caliber of women. so rather then focusing on the confusions of the women in our society (which i may add are many). Focus on becoming the person who is equal to what you are looking for. …and then, LOVE will find you.

please know i say this all in love, to encourage any guy or girl in the same situation.

-k.